Remember there is always another side of a story, which may change our understanding of things completely no matter who told it to us.
Just because someone tells you something about another person, doesn’t make it true!
This happens all the time. One will bitch about the other and people to tend to believe everything they hear, when they weren’t even there to witness anything.
People always gripe and vent their “perceptions” and perceptions are not facts! Stop being judgmental !